You want to choose shades similar to skin tone so there will be a lot of variance from one person to the next. If you're ultra fair, feel free to use my suggestions. You need three shades one two shades darker than your skin tone, the next one shade darker, and the final one close to your skin tone.
Use the darkest shade in the corner and crease of the eye sweeping inwards. Go back over that with your medium shade and blend the two. Sweep the medium shade along the rest of the lower lid. Use your lightest shade just beneath the brow and in the inside corner of the eye. Blending this into the medium shade.
Use a brown eyeliner for a softer look. Only line three quarters of the way in on both lids. Finish off with mascara.
Use a light peach or pink on the cheeks. For your lips use any shade ranging from soft pink to nude.
Foundation: Revlon ColorStay Foundation Ivory #110
Concealer: Sally Hansen All Over Brightener & Sonia Kashuk Concealer Palette
Powder: Mac Minearalize Skin Finish Light MAC
Primer: Urban Decay Primer Potion Original Urban Decay
Medium Brown: Inglot #337 Inglot
Lighter Rose Brown: Inglot # 341
Highlight: Inglot # 353
Eyeliner: Urban Decay 24/7 Glide On Whiskey Urban Decay
Mascara: Maybelline Define-a-Lash
Blush: Maybelline Dream Mousse Blush Peach Satin #20
Highlight: Cover Girl Powder Natural Ivory
Lips: Inglot Cream Lipstick# 121 Inglot
Tools: MakeUpGeek Outer V Brush MUG
MAC 217 MAC
MAC 219 MAC
Alternatives: Palladio Eyeshadow Primer Palladio
MakeUpGeek Crease Brush MUG